Saturday, February 16, 2013

Just an update

Hey loves,
So I figured I should probably let everyone know that I am okay. I know that the car wreck thing was a huge surprise (trust me, it was to me too), but none the less, I'm okay. I'm battered and bruised, emotionally unstable and mentally scarred, but other than that "it's a jolly holiday".
I owe a lot of that to my wonderful friends and family, not to mention all the well wishes I got from all of you (and the readers of my other blogs). I am so blessed to have such a LARGE group of people who care about me and wish me the best. It's wonderful to know that we can all be there for each other when it is what is necessary.

So, anyway, I don't really know what to say. I want to try to get those of you who want to to subscribe to my "relationship blog". It's where I'm now posting about my relationship with my boyfriend plus my relationships with my friends. (as well as opinions on other love based things).
I got tired of bogging up this blog, that is meant to talk about my schooling and my life while conquering college with ooey gooey stuff about my love life.

So, the url to the other blog is: http://greatapartandwonderfultogether.blogspot.com/

If you want to, check it out and maybe even subscribe.

Saturday, February 9, 2013

R.I.P Molly

I was in a car wreck today in Eugene. Molly (my car) is totaled. Luckily, I and my passengers are fine (worst injury was my passenger broke her foot, so send healing thoughts her way). I have bruising across my nose, a few Burns on my fingers from my air bag and a fairly decent bruise on my shin. I'm just thankful everyone will be okay, and that we're all alive. I'll give up my car to know that my friends are still alive. As for now, I am home in Medford and resting. Thank you to everyone who helped, especially Kory, who jumped onto action like crazy. I love you all. And thank Molly for being the tank you were and saving all of us.
Saturday: February 9, 2013:
Today was my car wreck and I'm still shaken. I was driving south, in the left lane, down River Road. I got to Hanson road (it would have been on my right), and a lady who was in the middle turn lane turned directly in front of me. This would mean that she was turning left to go onto Hanson. I had no time to slam on my breaks or swerve. I lost my car. Molly is totaled. I'm in tears over the loss. I had Stefhani in the front seat passenger and Sophie behind her. Stef broke her foot and has a severe burn from her seat belt and Soph has some pretty dandy bruises. I was so hopped up on adreniline that nothing hurt on me, I was just angry, beyond angry... I'm down right pissed off. The other driver saw me, I know she did. Why did she do this to me, my friends and Molly?! Oh Molly...
It was sunny, the roads were dry and we were heading to off the waffle...
It wasn't until after the cops talked to me and Molly started getting towed that I finally cried, I loved my car. She as my baby girl, and part of my family. It was hard seeing her smoking and broken, unable to move and me being unable to help her. I just wanted to fix her, I wanted to go back in time and make it so the crash never happened. So that all of my friends were okay and I still have Molly.
Once I got to Kory's house, I realized how bad I really hurt. My knee was throbbing, my fingers got burns from the airbag and my nose and face were in the process of bruising. I couldn't wait till my parents were able to come get me. I wanted to be home.
Once they got there, we had to go get the rest of my stuff out of Molly, I saw her and burst into tears.
After we were down the road a little, and we stopped for gas, I was able to look at my knee. There was a pretty intense welt on it and it hurt so bad. I just wanted to be home. All throughout the day, I've been crying at random points, and I really hope that stops.



From my mom:


Thank you God for protecting Carly, Sophie and Stefhani.
Thank you "Molly Car" for giving your life to protect those within.
Thank you Kory for jumping into action and taking care of them until I could get there. (Even the chicken noodle soup!)
Thank you to the First Response Teams (Firemen, police officers and ambulance).
Thank you to the eye witness that took care of these girls and stayed to make the reports.
Thank you to the gentlemen that welcomed these girls and gave them everything they needed (coats, drinks, chairs....) from his yard during this time.
Thank you to the "Angel" lady that appeared and stayed with Carly all during this ordeal. She was so kind, compassionate and gentle.
Thank you to everyone for the love and prayers during this time.

R.I.P. Molly Car, I am forever grateful. (Thanks mom!)


Sunday, February 3, 2013

Just a quick post

Ooooooh Sharis'. How is it that you can't ever leave there without stories?
Tonight Jackie and I got extra special treatment: chocolate syrup on top of our whip cream on our hot chocolates (even on our seconds), plus the manager came over to personally introduce himself.
Gabe joined, we all ate and found out that Jackie had a slight stalker. We also saw Hunter.
Then I apparently had a hand look like it poofed out of my head (the guy sitting in the booth behind me put his hand up I guess and it looked like it came out of my head), the manager than proceeded to flirt with me, a really drunk lady talked to us and as we were leaving a guy and a lady gave us the great idea to bring board games since we sit at Sharis' for so long. The lady suggested Farkle.
I swear, life is never boring.
Yeah, you read the middle of that correct. My boyfriend finally joined a thing of mine with a friend! I can't even explain how excited I was for him to be there.
To top that off, I thought he was just going to be awkward and not boyfriend-y at all and well, he was. He held my hand, joked around, kissed my cheek and kissed me goodbye. I needed that. I needed to see that there was progress.... especially since I'm surrounded by break ups lately and its starting to scare me.
Best quote of the night was between Jackie and I talking about an ex after Gabe left:
"Kory would kill Jake" - Jackie
"Jake? Jake from state farm?" - me
*we bust up laughing*
"I think you mean James" - me
"that just shows how much I don't care about him" - Jackie