Conflict
"Conflict
is something we see every day and experience it seem multiple times a
day as human beings. Whether it be something small like where to eat
or something large like a conflict in a relationship, it is still
hard to see how to resolve the issue and get out alive to the other
side of the seemingly dark tunnel.
But what
is the cause of conflict, well, it varies. It can be due to
competition, social dilemmas, perceived injustice, or one that is
common in my life, perceptions. I know that a lot of people
experience the conflict of perceived injustice, it seems I hear the
words "this isn't fair" on a daily basis, and that is
exactly what perceived injustice is. The funny thing to me is that
the way to resolve it is yourself. The way you respond, act and hold
yourself is going to affect how people respond, react and see you.
As for
my biggest conflict: perceptions. There are many different types like
misperception, mirror image perceptions and shifting perceptions.
Misperception is when is seems that the actions or goals are
unattainable and are usually caused by the root motive. Mirror Image
perception is when the conflicts are mutual as is the misperceptions.
And shifting perceptions is when the conflict seems to appear and
disappear. The best solution to all those above is communication,
whether it be within yourself to figure out the problem on your own
side, or with the others involved to figure out the different
motives."
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